The real reasons why people get jealous

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fï f,dalh úkdYhg m;aùug fy:ajqw ukqIHhdf.ka úYajhg tl;=jk krl is;sú,s iuQyhhs

fuf,dj Ôj;ajk ish¨‍u ukqIH iuQyhd‍f.a is; ;=< n,mj;ajk yeÕSï ud,dj fohdldrh' fuh fyd| fyda krl jYfhka ú.%y l< yels h' fyd|hehs i,lk is;sú,s úYajh mqrd fmdaIKh fjñka me;sr hkq we;' tajd ish¨‍ i;a;ajhdg hym; f.fka' krl is;sú,s ish¨‍ i;a;ajhdg ydks lr wkaoñka úYajhg tl;= fõ' thska f,da ;,h ljod fyda l%ufhka úkdYhg meñfKkq we;' oekg th isÿfjñka mj;S' ud fuys ud;Dldjg f.k we;s fldgia fï f,dalh úkdYhg m;aùug ukqIHhdf.ka úYajhg tl;=jk krl is;sú,s iuQyhhs'

hï flfkl= iqnodhl ld¾hhka lrñka isák wjia:djl ;j;a wfhl= Bg fmdaIKh fkdjk ydkslr jpkhla mejiqfõo@ th tu iqn l¾;jHh wvmK ùug fya;= fõ' —wj lefmk jpk˜ jYfhka wms th y÷kajuq' —´l yßhk jevlao@˜ —´l Èk lSmhlska bjrhsæ˜ " —;uqfif. Th .uk yßhkafk keye˜ "—Th .uk fyd¢ka .syska wdfjd;a mqÿuhs˜ —;uqfi jeä l,la Ôj;a jkafk keye˜" —Th /lshdj;a bjrhsæ˜ fï wd§ jYfhka krl fÉ;kdfjka mjik jpk ukqIHd úkdYùug fya;= ù we;' f,dalh l%ufhka úkdY uqLhg m;a jkafka o ukqIHd ;=< mj;sk fujeks krl joka ud,djla úYajhg tl;=ùfuks'

hï wfhl= b;d wiykldß Ôú;hla .; lrk úg mjikakd jQ jpk úI iys; fkdjQj;a ixfõ.d;aul ;;a;ajhg m;aùug wj lefmk iajNdjhlg fhduq fõ' —uu fyg jevg tkafka keye˜ " —tkak ,efío okafk keye˜" —wÈka miafi uu tkafk keye˜" —ldf, wjidkhs jf.˜ fï wd§ ;udgu lshd .kakd joka ud,djka ;ukagu úkdYhg fya;=‍ fõ'

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lgjy úI fndaïnhla ;rï oreKqh' ukqIHhd ;=< we;s jk B¾Ihd iy.; is;sú,s mokï lrf.k msglrk laI‚l jpk ji úI ;rï oreKq fõ' wo iudcfha fndfyda wh w;r fuh mj;S' wd.ñl yeÈhdjla ke;s wkqkaf.a ÈhqKqjg B¾IHd lrk mqoa.,hska ;=< fï ;;a;ajh fndfyda f,i we;' —;uqfig kï oeka chhs fkao@˜" —fï .fia m,odj kï fyd|g ;sfhkjd fkao@" —jdyfka kï ure˜" —ta lEu mqÿu rilafk ;sfhkafk˜" —wr hldf. lfâ kï oeka fyd|g ÈhqKqhs fkao@˜" fukak fïjd ;ud lgjy lshkafk' fujeks joka b;d úI iys;hs'fuhska jHdmdrhla" jákdjia;=jla" m,odjla úkdY l< yels fõ' uka;% .=relï fldäúK wjYH ke;' fïjd ;uhs fldäúK' úg fkdlk /jq, ke;s" weia f,dl= wx. ,laIK we;s mqoa.,hskaf.a fuh b;d wêl f,i mj;S'fujeks whf.ka m%fõYïjkak' weiqre lrkakgj;a tmdæ'weiqre Cf<d;a úkdYh miqmi nj oek .kak'

 

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ukqIHhd úkdY lrk B<Õ úI lsrKh —weia jy˜ kï fõ' fï ish¨‍ jig jv‍d oreKq fõ' iuyr ukqIHhska ;=< mj;sk ‍B¾IHdj" l=yl;ajh wd§ wiqn is;sú,s uOHfha fmdaIKfhka idrj;a Ndjfhka mßmQ¾K j.djla fyda yevfhka hqla; f.hla" ,laIK jdykhla ÿgqúg ñksidf.a jpkfhka fyda is;sú,s iuÕ úYajhg tl;=jk úI lsrK iuQyh th úkdY lsÍug fya;=fõ' úfYaIfhka fuys§ jdykhla kï hï lsis wdmodjla isÿùu" idrj;a j.djla kï l¿ meye;s mkqjka fndaùu" f.ä l=Kqùu iuÕ me,Shdu" we;=<; mkqjka isàu weia jy fodaIfhka isÿjkakls'

w¿f;ka blau‚ka jev wjika fjñka mj;sk ksjilg weia jy fodaIh ;Èka n,mj;ajkq we;' fïjdg m%;sl¾u jYfhka fndfyda fokd mUhl=f.a rEmhla idod t,a,Su" mqyq,a f.ä t,a,Su jfÜ wdjrKhla iE§u wdÈh lrhs' .eñhd ikSmj;a t<fofkl=f.ka lsß fodjk wjia:dj lsis whl=g fkdfmkS lrkafka weia jy fodaIfha ;ru kmqre úI.;sh okakd fyhsks' lsßnqre,a, mqmqrd hdu" ;=jd, iE§u wd§ wjia:d ud oel we;af;ñ'

hï wfhl=f.a w;l ll=,l mj;sk ;=jd,hla iuyr mqoa.,hka ÿgq úg th jeä ù ´ci .e,Sug ;rï úI iys; weia jy fodaIh mj;sk mqoa.,hd iudchg ms,sl=,la njg m;aj we;' fujeks mqoa.,hska ia;%Ska fyda mqreIhska hï ksjilg meñfKk úg iuyr fï .ek okafkda fodr ji;s' yexf.;s' ta ;rïu kmqre úI wh fj;s'

—fyda jy˜ hful=f.a ÈhqKqj jákd fohla ÿgq úg fyda id¾:l j.djla ÿgq úg fyda is;g we;sjk B¾IHdj ord.; fkdyelsj ;ukag tjekakla ke;s ksid f;d,afol uquqKñka tk joka ud,dj fyda jy fõ' —hflda uQgufk yßhkafk˜ " —uQgufk ,efnkafk˜" —W! kï úNdf. mdia˜ " —wfma tld fma,a˜" fujeks joka is; ;=<g ld je§u;a iuÕ we;sjk n,fõ.h ldgj;a fkdf;a‍frk f,i ue;sÍu b;d n,.;= yQkshï uka;%hla yd iudkh'

fujeks ms<sl=,a iy.; n,mEï we;s ùug fya;= jk .%y n,mEu wj pkaøhd iuÕ l=c rdyq wd§ .%yhska kSp rdYshl isáñka fyda ixfhda.j ,.akhg oDIaÀ fy,Sfuka tjeks ia;%Sf.a fyda mqreIhdf.a by; lS úI n,mEï yg.kS' tjeks whf.a ÈhqKqj ke;' b;d wmyiq;djhla uOHfha wka whg B¾IHd lrñka Ôj;ajkafkda fj;s' fudkjd lrkak o fï ixidrfha yeá Tfyduhs'

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